I’ve always said that, “If he wins, I win” in regards to my marriage. It’s been such a joy teaching this same concept to my children. 

By nature, we are not prone to celebrate someone else’s victory. Our default setting is to be jealous or envious of another’s “win”.

“Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” Romans‬ ‭12:15‬ ‭NIV

When Josiah completed another Good Choice Chart - documenting 138 good choices - we were thrilled to celebrate him. The victory was even sweeter when the whole family won with an overnight stay at his favorite hotel with a pool.